We have distorted the world by our twisted defenses, and therefore are hence seeing what on earth is not there. As we learn to recognize our perceptual faults, we also learn to look earlier them or "forgive." Concurrently we are forgiving ourselves, seeking past our distorted self-concepts towards the Self https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTleG6-484F7WHZD0hAjRRw